Ever since returning home from BlogHer this past weekend, I can’t help but wonder if this conference is truly educational for women who blog. Hear me out, becausae I’m not trying to slam BlogHer. It is what it is – a place for bloggers to enjoy each other’s company, court brands and receive some basic education. However, I don’t see it as being truly a place where women can learn to rise in the ranks of social media and blogging and especially to earn money with their blogs.
I saw a lot of things at BlogHer this year, but nothing that indicates it’s there to help empower women. Don’t get me wrong, everyone there was happy to be there and I’m no exception. I had a wonderful time, I just didn’t learn anything to help me grow as a blogger or social media professional. What I did take away was the positive vibe that comes with sisterhood and community. I also learned that many of the bloggers in attendance barely earned anything from their blogs last year.
I talked to many bloggers, including plenty who receive brand sponsorships, and from them I learned:
- Quite a few popular bloggers earned less than $1,000 last year but received lots of free stuff. Several of them are away from home often as they receive sponsorship to attend these events, but they don’t earn actual money.
- Many bloggers were sponsored by a brand, but none of them (that I spoke with) talked about their sponsor and very few wore t-shirts or other items indicating sponsorship. If I didn’t ask if they received sponsorship to attend BlogHer, I wouldn’t have known. So if they’re not out pimping the brand, where’s the value in sponsoring bloggers?
- Very few bloggers actually go home and write about the brands who are passing out freebies and swag at BlogHer.
- Many bloggers who I spoke with felt free samples and products were payment enough as they save them from having to buy those items in the supermarket. However, many of these bloggers also receive products they wouldn’t have purchased in the first place.
So at the risk of alienating my friends who are part of the BlogHer community, I’d like to know when the real, actual empowerment begins? How does courting brands in exchange for sponsorships or freebies help a woman to advance as a business person and professional? If BlogHer truly wanted to help women there would be more sessions and vendors teaching us how to make real, actual money as bloggers and rise to the top as social media professionals.
What Dora the Explorer and Elmo have to do with blogs, sisterhood or empowerment is beyond me.
Moreover, I wonder if this does more harm for the cause than good. I’ll be fair, I don’t see much gender discrimination in the blogosphere, but I will say that I do fight off a certain stigma associated with women who blog – that we’re all mommy bloggers or that we prefer to blog in exchange for free stuff. I don’t know how anyone who is serious about their blogging – and about being taken seriously as a blogger – can see this sort of event as a path towards the advancement of women.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I’ve received free stuff in exchange for reviews, but not often and because I don’t want my blog to only be about product reviews and giveaways. I also let sponsors know that if I do review their products there’s a chance that the review won’t be a good one. Some have chosen to not do business with me for that reason, and that’s fine. However, my preference is to earn money as a blogger. Any sponsorships (through advertising) I receive are monetary and only for products and servies I believe in. At the end of the year, I won’t have a closet full of freebies but I will have earned enough to help support my family and put a bit aside for some shopping and a rainy day.
Also? More than a few bloggers told me they wanted to learn how to earn more actual money with their blogging, but weren’t sure how to do so, and were just as confused about how to do this on the day they left.
As a skeptical first time attendee, this negativity might be all me. So I’d like to put it to you, BlogHer attendees. How does BlogHer empower you to succeed? What is the benefit to all this brand courting? And, finally, did you earn any money as a blogger in the past year, and if so, was it more than a few hundred dollars per month?
If you want to empower women, don’t give them Swiffers and oatmeal, give them money. Give them a job. A good job.
For more on this, please read:
- BlogHer: It Was…Um…Weird - Scoutie Girl
- BlogHer From the Eyes of a Reluctant Newbie: Kommein








