It's Not Your Fault – But it Is!

by Deb Ng on December 21, 2008

finger-pointing

I hate to break it to you, but as Community Manager you’re going to get blamed for everything whether you’re the culprit or not. It’s not that folks want to blame you, but as the person who is reaching out to the public, it will be you who bears the brunt of the anger when stuff happens. And stuff always happens.

  • If folks don’t like a new design or interface, they’ll gripe to the Community Manager.
  • If folks are having trouble logging in or the site is down, they’ll gripe to the Community Manager.
  • If the forum or user group isn’t functioning, they’ll gripe to the Community Manager.
  • If folks aren’t happy with the response from a member of the team they’ll gripe to the Community Manager.
  • If results aren’t happening quick enough….you guessed it.

It’s not that your community wants to dump on you, but who else do they have? The CEO who doesn’t respond to emails or the techies who have a pile of support tickets to deal with? They have two options: let it go and not stand up for things they don’t like, or gripe to the Community Manager.

When this happens, be gracious and do everything you can to soothe jangled nerves.

Remember:

  • It’s the Community Manager’s job to ensure community happiness. If folks aren’t happy, find the reason why and do everything you can to fix it.
  • Check your attitude at the door.  You’re sure to receive some nasty emails or comments. When this happens walk away. Come back later when you had a chance to cool down, respond pleasantly to the other’s concerns. Never fire off an email in anger.
  • Always let folks know you’re doing everything in your power to address their concerns. Sending them a note telling them you don’t have the answer yet, but are looking into it is much better than not responding at all.
  • Apologize even if it’s not your fault. Don’t point blame or make a lot of excuses, but an apology on behalf of your company can do wonders to make a situation better.
  • Each individual member of a community is important. Never stop making folks feel special.

You know and your team knows when mistakes aren’t your fault. Still, as community manager there are going to be times when aren’t quite showing you the love. Count to ten and address their concerns. When you have your community’s trust, the angry finger pointing becomes fewer and farther between.

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  • http://blog.angelaconnor.com Angela Connor

    Truer words were never spoken. The community blames you for everything and it’s very important to know the pulse of the community and address things when you can. A good community manager will find that the members will often come to your defense and answer questions on your behalf. I’ve seen others defend me in blog posts and even encourage those who are simply complaining about something to “ask Angela about it.” The way you respond to this blame and criticism and more importantly address concerns, really sets the tone of what the community can expect. Once a few people have had a good experience with you, the word begins to spread.

  • http://freelancewritinggigs.com Deb Ng

    Hi Angela, It’s true. The Community Manager sets the tone and is a presence representative of the entire company. So if something is wrong and people aren’t happy, the CM has to keep her cool and soothe egos and nerves. Eventually folks will realize not everything in the world is your fault, and they will indeed stick up for you. I love the loyal members of my different communities and it’s my pleasure to look out for them to reward them for their loyalty.

  • http://www.communityspark.com/ Martin Reed

    You know, if you don’t get complaints then you aren’t doing your job properly. Community managers can’t be everyone’s friend. Whilst they need to share part of themselves in order to build and develop relationships with other members, they are not regular members.

    At times, you’ll need to do things that you know will create complaints, but that are necessary. You may need to warn a popular member. You may need to delete the post of an influencer. Prepare yourself for some pointed fingers, as they will be coming your way sooner or later. Don’t let them get you down though; instead, see them as confirmation that you are being effective in your role.

    - Martin

  • http://freelancewritinggigs.com Deb Ng

    Good advice, Martin. You can’t please everyone all the time, but you can do what you can to make the experience less unpleasant.

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